Every lawyer, at least once in every case, feels himself crossing a line that he doesn’t really mean to cross… it just happens… And if you cross it enough times it disappears forever. And then you’re nothin but another lawyer joke. Just another shark in the dirty water.” from The Rainmaker.  

*The information contained on this website concerning my case is a matter of public record, whether part of the court record or available to the public through the Freedom of Information Act, or verifiable by eye-witnesses, and court watch.

Most Americans are blissfully unaware that their tax dollars support a court system with little to no accountability which operates on a “pay to play” level to predetermine the “winner” without Due Process, in clear violation of our Constitutional Rights.  In a country where most people believe in “family values”, fit and loving Parents are erased from their children’s lives, for huge profit every day. Motherless America   Federal Funding to States for Removing a Parent

We demand reform, accountability, and checks and balances in this system.  We demand that our Constitutional Rights be upheld, Due Process, Rules of Evidence and the State Statutes be followed.  We demand that Family Court judges, who receive their salaries and pensions from our tax-payer money, adhere to their sworn Oath of Office.  (5 ILCS 255/) Oaths and Affirmations Act.  28 U.S. Code § 453 – Oaths of justices and judges

We demand that attorneys and all court vendors adhere to the Code of Ethics and Statutes for their respective professions.  We demand an immediate end to false reporting, perjury and Judicial Deception on the part of Child Representatives, Guardian Ad Litems, and all court vendors. 

We demand an end to the illegal practice of judges and lawyers forcing litigants into so-called “therapy” with their buddies.  “Family Court is a very lucrative Litigation-Therapy Racket.“-Doreen Ludwig, Author, Motherless America: Confronting Welfare’s Fatherhood Custody Program.   We demand an end to cronyism and corruption, legal psychiatric abuse, and the litigation-therapy racket.  

We demand that all family court judges, attorneys, clerks, and court vendors behave in an honorable and decent fashion.  We demand that they treat each and every litigant and child in the system with honesty, respect, kindness, and courtesy.  We demand that family court insiders immediately stop exploiting litigants and Cease And Desist from treating us like their personal money machines.  


Family Court insiders have the perfect machinery in place to make a boat-load of money off of people’s pain.  In a self-policing system where the financial goals of court vendors come first, countless children are forced to grow up without one of their parents. Family Court has more dollars flowing through it than all the other courts combined.  Our precious children are nothing more than family court insiders’ paychecks.  This must change!



      1. bella2113

        I wanted to apologize about my comment ( pertaining to Dr Jonathon Gamze ) You are absolutely right, If a doctor whomever they are does break the law, violates it in anyway he or she should be prosecuted to the fullest extent. – Ione thing I do wish and I know that it is the victims privscy. Or dr Jonathon Gamze but I do believe if doctors or anyone for that matter who broke the law: the people should be able to know what it is exactly the doctor or whomever did. It would help make a change I believe. Right now all anyone knows ( that is around here Arlington heights that he was under probation for controlled substances ( we lack the actually law that we broke. Doctors are people also, and shouldn’t all of us be informed so we can make a wise choice whether or not to see this doctor based on factual evidence ?


      2. AMother'sHeartSongsUnsilenced Post author

        Thank you for your message. The findings of these investigation are available to the public, but many times people do not know where to go for the information, or understand how to make FOIA requests. This site contains the information obtained from HealthGrades, and from the FOIA request to the State licensing board. Anyone wishing to stay current with sanctions on medical licenses can search from their site: https://www.idfpr.com/dpr.asp, and make their own Freedom of Information Act requests, if they choose to do so.


  1. Diane Wilson

    The judicial system in our country needs a complete overhaul, with most of the judges removed from the bench. Then we need a citizen oversight board to review their rulings in depth. Judges need to be held accountable for what they are doing to people. Once money is taken out of the equation we will begin to see more justice. I went public with my mother’s story the day she was kidnapped by Mary Giordano, an elder “care attorney with elderlawfg.com. She and the judge and the geriatric “care” manager did everything they could to steal every last dime from my mother. Once they locked her up in a nursing home, my Mom gave up. Two months later to the day she died; penniless, frightened and alone. Never be afraid to expose these criminals. They know exactly what they are doing and they are a major part of the reason for the destruction and devaluation of family. Those people will pay a heavy price. Karma. Keep up the good work. You will win…

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  2. Mark Hexum

    Stories like yours are the reason I took my story public. My sons were older but damaged severely. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you. This stuff has to stop. I’m going to do my part to change the laws.


  3. Jude Hunter

    The one thing [good fit mothers] that lose custody have in common is [they] have an [abuse case]. The U.S.DOJ investigation found the nation’s [custody evaluators] and [minors attorney’s] recommend custody to [abusive fathers] and the nation’s divorce court judges award custody to [abusive fathers] based on [parental alienation], court ordering protective mothers [supervised visits] or [no contact].

    Children have no power, no voice, and do not get to choose one parent over the other. [Minors attorney’s, custody evaluators and judges] decide that. Abuse cases…are [wrongly] labeled parental alienation or [high conflict] cases.


    1. Hadassah Weinstein

      “The one thing [good fit mothers] that lose custody have in common is [they] have an [abuse case]. ”
      That’s because only ABUSERS sue for custody (in most cases). A loving Dad does not try to rip kids away from their Mom. Abusers sue to force Mom to return to him or to punish Mom by taking away her children. Sociopath Abusers cannot allow their victims to escape but are driven to destroy their lives. What better way to destroy your Ex then by taking away her children.


      1. 24hrsamonth

        Ah so very true. I have been fighting my case for 8 years now. I am fresh out of money and can’t stomach the BS that flys out of their mouths. My children were taken away from me by a man who is a master manipulator. I see my children 24 hours a MONTH! I could go on and on however my point being, I am blessed to have found this site and find it most helpful on all fronts.


  4. Alex Ship

    I am a targeted Mom. They misuse an old substance abuse (18 years old) history and bogus mental health manipulated evaluations to muddy the issue ….. I hurt over my children every single day. They are in the hands of very smart meth-users and sex freaks (is that redundant?). Violent people who know how to wear a convincing mask. I was fit. they are NOT. Cant get justice. And my life is a nightmare every single day. Its gotten worse in the 40 days if that is even possible. No one normal would believe what is hapepening to me. I am being denied “proof” by medical professionals and laboratory personnel. DONT Pee on my leg and tell me its raining. You give me some peace knowing it has happened to you too. I am sorry ..

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    1. asmith539

      Its been 6 years for me. Last year he beat our oldest son. The judge said even though it was in the best interests for the kids to come live with me, he was giving them back to the convicted abuser of woman and children. I am feeling like I’m losing my mind. My heart is broken.



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