Monthly Archives: March 2016

Natalie Koga Confronted With Eye-Witness To Her Corruption

Ever wondered what family court corruption in Rolling Meadows Cook County Illinois really looks like?  Natalie Koga didn’t even bother with a pretense of impartiality and professionalism in Judge Alfred Levinson’s Rolling Meadows Cook County courtroom.  She promoted my ex-husband’s onslaught of eight petitions for sole custody, and countless other harassing motions, an abusive litigation-vortex.  This vicious legal bullying lasted more than six years. She entered and exited Judge Levinson’s courtroom with every single one of my ex-husband’s six attorneys and sat next to them.  She lied to the court at nearly every court appearance, much of it on the record.  While texting with my ex-husband per cell phone bills, she avoided talking with or meeting with me.  

Letter from my former counsel Karen Conti to Natalie Koga, Child Representative, dated August 23, 2013, confronts her with eye-witness to her collusion with opposing counsel.

Dear Natalie:

Although I have just recently become involved in this case, I am concerned with some of your actions which I have witnessed and of which I have become aware.

First, at the last court appearance, my friend was sitting on a bench outside the courtroom and overheard you speaking to Meg Jackson (Father’s) attorney.  You obviously did not know he was my friend.  You and Meg Jackson were actively engaged in joining forces against my client and making comments about getting Dr. Goldstein, (Father’s Hired Gun Psychologist)  involved to ‘help out’ the problem; the problem being Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour’s desire to be a mother to her child.  Your disparagement of me personally was also noted which is unprofessional and petty.

26558_414250333372_1300232_nDespite the 604(b) evaluator’s two reports finding that (Father) is an alienator and that (Mother) should have sole custody, you have ignored these facts and blindly advocated that (minor child) spend as little time as possible with his mother.  At trial, you vigorously fought Dr. Finn’s recommendations.  Bizarrely, in court you advocated that (minor child) be put into “after school” care rather than be allowed to have the option to walk the four blocks to spend time with his mother.  Even after Judge Levinson ordered that (Minor Child) attend (High School), and (Father) attempted to sabotage his enrollment, you did not advocate for actions necessary for him to attend school there.  On August 22, (minor child) refused to leave the (public library) to come home with his Mother and said “Stay away from me.  You are not allowed to be with me.  I have spoken with my attorney.”  If you did, in fact, advise (Minor Child) of that, you have violated all ethical duties as a child representative and attorney.  Why haven’t you been involved in resolving this problem and encouraging your client that it is better to spend three hours after school at his mother’s house than sitting in a public library?

My client advises me of the following additional facts:

heartYou have encouraged (Minor Child) to call you whenever he disagrees with what his mother says or when he does not get his way and then you refuse to communicate with Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour despite the fact that she is the legal custodian.  By doing this, you are encouraging disrespect of parental boundaries and assisting in the alienation that has already been established by Dr. Finn.  Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour has repeatedly asked for a more orderly means of communication but you have refused to respond.

Dr. Hummel noted that you crossed professional boundaries at (Hospital) interfering with (Minor Child’s) (medical) care.  In August, 2011, you engaged in wildly inappropriate physical contact with (Minor Child) by forcing him to hug you.

Since September, 2010, you have refused to communicate with Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour, who has historically been the primary caretaker and the sole legal custodian.  The vast majority of conferences and telephone calls with (minor child) have occurred only when he was with Mr. Mehdipour.

07d21cdead32e6a1b808ad77e8f6d560At Ms. Nadig’Mehdipour’s request, you interviewed Dr. Naila Wilcox-Avery, and Dr. Rodney Avery. who told you that they had concerns that (Father) was physically abusing (Minor Child) and coaching him to make false abuse allegations against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  Those doctors have reported that your refused to listen to their concerns.

You have been disrespectful and rude to (Mother) in the presence of (Minor child) and have attempted to interfere with (Minor Child’s) medical treatment by telling him, “Your mom shouldn’t take you for these assessments.”  You told (Minor Child)  “I’ll yell at your mom and make her a better mom to you.

You failed to communicate with therapist Stephanie Simpson for 11 months even though Ms. Simpson attempted to contact you repeatedly.  Rather than speaking to Ms. Simpson., you filed a Rule To Show Cause against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.

I have not seen you once make a negative comment about (Father) despite findings that he is abusive, an alienator, and a parent who sabotages his child’s education.  Strangely, you have nothing but negative things to say about Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  While I have not always agreed with GALS and Child Representatives, I have never seen one who is so actively opposed to one parent’s involvement in parenting, despite her having sole custody.

20130917-105004.jpgI am told that you are not being paid.  It defies logic that you are still so actively and aggressively involved despite this fact.  Please assure me as an officer of the Court that neither (Father) nor anyone else on his behalf is paying you.  Also, assure me that you are not going to use your offices to contact (Minor Child’s) high school and poison them against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  I do not see that you have any reason to contact them.  You are not a parent and have no business asserting your will into this family’s issues.

Sincerely,

Karen Conti  

 

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Dr. Jonathan Gamze Misconduct

Dr. Jonathan Gamze, MD

Specializes in Psychiatry, Arlington Heights, IL – Sanction

  • Misprescribing or Overprescribing Drugs  (9/14/2015)

  • Action Taken: Revocation, Surrender, Suspension of Controlled Substance License
  • Summary: Gamze, Jonathan C MD: License # 036078450: NATURE OF COMPLAINT: The physician failed to properly prescribe medications to a patient of his practice. ACTION TAKEN: The Illinois Department of Financial and Professional Regulation placed the physician’s license on indefinite PROBATION for a minimum of three years and the physician’s controlled substance license on indefinite SUSPENSION.
  • State: Illinois

Dr. Jonathan Gamze Probation & License Suspension

Illinois Department of Financial and Professional Regulation License Sanctions Dr. Jonathan Gamze

Special Sale–John Howard Wyman’s Bood Against her Will — $15 Paypal/Quickpay

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A cautionary tale of elder abuse and the system that perpetuates it. Two years ago John Wyman’s mother Carol walked out of a nursing home in Rockford, Illinois. She had been placed there for the convenience of others, not for her own well-being and had suffered mentally, physically and emotionally. When she ended up at John’s home outside of Aspen, Colorado his journey began. Hairdresser by trade, rebel at heart, John took on the challenges of dealing with nursing homes, courts and family members to provide the best possible situation for his mother. What he experienced woke him up to the inequities and injustices lurking in the systems which have been established to help our older population. He decided to share his story to make us all aware of the catastrophic possibilities that lie in wait if we don’t take action to change these systems. A must read for all…

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Another Good Mom Bullied To Death By Family Court

This is a long and emotional read, but for those that have never been a victim of the system or have a hard time believing that an innocent person really can be innocent, even if a court document says otherwise… this story proves otherwise. All it takes is 1 person telling 1 lie that leads to another and another and another…So, sad. The poor mom who is now dead… and the poor children who are now permanent victims of the system and their narcissistic father…. if you can even call him that. 

“Dear MSM,

My name is Nikki, I put a gun to my already shattered heart on December 20, 2014 after fighting 5 years, 4 months and 15 days for my children, because of lies, manipulation, & court corruption.

I am dead, so my mom & brother are continuing my fight.

I gave birth to 4 beautiful children and was a stay at home mom. On August 5th 2009 after my ex, Brian, drank 3 Long Island iced teas & more he started beating me up. I called 911 and the cops took ME to jail (I had never been to jail). They did a breathalyzer on me I blew a 0. The arresting officer was a childhood friend of Brian’s. The next day Brian ran to the courthouse and got a restraining order on ME against my children and gained full custody. Brian falsely accused me of doing drugs, being crazy abusive, alcoholic, and doing meth while I was pregnant.

Brian had the kids in daycare. I got to see the kids at daycare. My 4 mo. old baby had severe diaper rashes most of the time. Brian would not get medicine from the doctor to bring to daycare. My ex manipulated a young girl that worked at daycare into signing a paper that I was harassing them. I instantly got restrained from daycare & any school function where my kids were for the next 5 years. I was ordered to do hair follicle tests and passed. I was ordered to go to drug and alcohol and passed. I was ordered to go to a psychologist and passed.

I filed 9 contempt of courts on Brian & Judge Scott Collier said, “You didn’t do it right.” Judge Collier was Brian’s mom’s attorney for her divorce when her boys were younger! I was my own attorney and asked the judge to recuse himself when I found this out, but the judge would NOT. My attorney I had for my domestic violence got video of my ex admitting he was drunk and couldn’t remember most of that first night this all started, but the judge would not allow this in court.

The boys got molested while at my ex’s home. Judge Collier ordered both my ex and me to get cps reports, drug and alcohol tests and psychologist reports for both of us. I complied, my ex did not. Cps testified for me, saying my ex was grooming the children. My son’s baseball coach testified for me, saying the boys seemed scared of my ex. The boys’ counselor testified for me & said the kids seemed afraid of my ex. The forensic evaluator, Dr. Landon Poppleton, and my ex’s mom were the only ones that testified for Brian. Dr. Poppleton testified that my ex was 99% a liar yet testified that he would be the better parent. My ex’s mom testified that I drank a lot and dressed basically like a prostitute and lots more.

Judge Collier gave Brian full custody.

When I would try to talk with the kids while they were at Brian’s he would turn cartoons on so loud the kids couldn’t concentrate while talking to me and many more things, he would make excuses to where I couldn’t talk with the kids for weeks. It was ordered that Brian record all phone conversations between my children and me and I was ordered into supervised visits. During the visits the boys would do or say things bad about me or to me. Brian would buy them things if they did this to me because it was supervised he would use it as proof.

After a while I did not go see the kids at all thinking he would stop treating them bad if I was not in the picture. I didn’t want them to have to go through any more.

Every time I took Brian to court Judge Collier would tear me down. Brian lied in court with no proof and he would allow it. I was too traumatized to go back to court to keep fighting. In the end, the lies & corruption were too devastating.

Brian refuses to this day to allow any of my family to see my children even supervised. He would not allow my children to go to my funeral even after my mom emailed and invited them.

Judge Collier didn’t allow me any assets at the end of trial. I lost my children and my assets. My parents lost their 23 year marriage and log home. My bio dad sold his 400 acres to help. He lost everything today and is still homeless. Please keep fighting. Awareness is needed—finally.”

RISPERDAL/RISPERDONE DANGEROUS FOR KIDS!

RISPERDAL/RISPERDONE NOT SAFE FOR CHILDREN UNDER THE AGE OF 20!!!  RISK OF PERMANENT DISABILITY AND DANGEROUS SIDE EFFECTS IS ALREADY HIGH, AND EVEN HIGHER FOR CHILDREN AND THE ELDERLY!

Johnson & Johnson has already paid over $2.2 billion in federal fines.  Litigation continues to be filed as a result of permanent disabilities as a result of taking this drug.

Freedom of Mind, Winning Human Rights For Those In The Mental Health System – Several articles on the dangers of Risperdone!

How To Safely Contact Your Mom

Free Jasmijn From Court Ordered Abduction

Jasmijn, follow this tutorial to have contact with me without anyone knowing about it! And if you are one of the thousands of other kids around the world like Jasmijn, who is forced to live with a father who doesn’t allow you to have contact with your mom, then this guide is for you too! It is a video clip that you can follow along step by step and you can pause it when you need to. Remember, you have the basic Human Right to have contact with your mother, your grandparents, your uncles, aunts, cousins and friends. Don’t let ANYONE tell you anything else!

Jasmijn: How To Safely Contact Your Mom

How An Abuser Tricks You With Apologies

By Tanya Warrington

I used to assume that any apology from my first husband was a sign that he was willing to change his behavior. As the apologies stacked up, I thought he was trying but just wasn’t having much success. Regardless of my conscious thoughts, my emotions took each apology to mean that from now on there was a fresh start, signifying a significant new shift in commitment and behavior.

It didn’t matter how optimistic I was, however. Near the very end of our relationship, I knew he’d never change– not unless he sought help and then fully engaged in the healing process. When I went to a domestic violence shelter and began an educational class on abuse dynamics, he began participating in an abuser support group. My battered hopes soared once again. Maybe, this last apology had been real, maybe now he’d change. It turned out that he spent his sessions lying, recoloring what had happened to make himself look like the concerned, overconscientious guy who was married to a paranoid, oversensitive gal. He was committed to damage control, not to repentance and growth.

Perhaps you’ve been on a similar roller coaster ride that involves apologies. How do abusive people trick normal intelligence people (and even above average intelligence people) into believing insincere apologies? I’m not a psychiatrist, psychologist, or sociologist. I have no studies proving my ideas, but for what it’s worth here are some things I’ve observed.  How An Abuser Tricks You With Apologies

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