Child Rep Natalie Koga Confronted W/ Eye-Witness To Her Corruption


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Ever wonder what corrupt child reps like Natalie Koga do when they think no one’s looking? Letter from my former attorney Karen Conti to Natalie Koga. Confronts her with eye-witness to conspiring with ex’s lawyer to erase me from my Son’s life.  

#Nataliekoga #Exposethecorruption

Dear Natalie:

Although I have just recently become involved in this case, I am concerned with some of your actions which I have witnessed and of which I have become aware.

First, at the last court appearance, my friend was sitting on a bench outside the courtroom and overheard you speaking to Meg Jackson (Father’s) attorney (Now “Mary-Elizabeth” Jackson).  You obviously did not know he was my friend.  You and Meg (Mary-Elizabeth) Jackson were actively engaged in joining forces against my client and making comments about getting Dr. Goldstein, (Father’s Hired Gun Psychologist) involved to ‘help out’ the problem; the problem being Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour’s desire to be a mother to her child.  Your disparagement of me personally was also noted which is unprofessional and petty.

Despite the 604(b) evaluator’s two reports finding that (Father) is an alienator and that (Mother) should have sole custody, you have ignored these facts and blindly advocated that (minor child) spend as little time as possible with his mother.  

topic-statue-of-liberty-gettyimages-960610006-promoAt trial, you vigorously fought Dr. Finn’s recommendations.  Bizarrely, in court you advocated that (minor child) be put into “after school” care rather than be allowed to have the option to walk the four blocks to spend time with his mother.  Even after Judge Levinson ordered that (Minor Child) attend (High School), and (Father) attempted to sabotage his enrollment, you did not advocate for actions necessary for him to attend school there.  On August 22, (minor child) refused to leave the (public library) to come home with his Mother and said “Stay away from me.  You are not allowed to be with me.  I have spoken with my attorney.”  If you did, in fact, advise (Minor Child) of that, you have violated all ethical duties as a child representative and attorney.  Why haven’t you been involved in resolving this problem and encouraging your client that it is better to spend three hours after school at his mother’s house than sitting in a public library?

My client advises me of the following additional facts:  You have encouraged (Minor Child) to call you whenever he disagrees with what his mother says or when he does not get his way and then you refuse to communicate with Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour despite the fact that she is the legal custodian.  By doing this, you are encouraging disrespect of parental boundaries and assisting in the alienation that has already been established by Dr. Finn.  Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour has repeatedly asked for a more orderly means of communication but you have refused to respond.  (Cell Phone Bill showing texts between Koga & Ex-Husband  mehdipourtexts – Reza Mehdipour August Text)

Dr. Hummel noted that you crossed professional boundaries at (Hospital) interfering with (Minor Child’s) (medical) care.  In August, 2011, you engaged in wildly inappropriate physical contact with (Minor Child) by forcing him to hug you.

Since September, 2010, you have refused to communicate with Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour, who has historically been the primary caretaker and the sole legal custodian.  The vast majority of conferences and telephone calls with (minor child) have occurred only when he was with Mr. Mehdipour.

At Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour’s request, you interviewed Dr. Naila Wilcox-Avery, and Dr. Rodney Avery. who told you that they had concerns that (Father) was physically abusing (Minor Child) and coaching him to make false abuse allegations against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  Those doctors have reported that your refused to listen to their concerns.

You have been disrespectful and rude to (Mother) in the presence of (Minor child) and have attempted to interfere with (Minor Child’s) medical treatment by telling him, “Your mom shouldn’t take you for these assessments.”  You told (Minor Child)  “I’ll yell at your mom and make her a better mom to you.

You failed to communicate with therapist Stephanie Simpson for 11 months even though Ms. Simpson attempted to contact you repeatedly.  Rather than speaking to Ms. Simpson., you filed a Rule To Show Cause against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.

I have not seen you once make a negative comment about (Father) despite findings that he is abusive, an alienator, and a parent who sabotages his child’s education.  Strangely, you have nothing but negative things to say about Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  While I have not always agreed with GALS and Child Representatives, I have never seen one who is so actively opposed to one parent’s involvement in parenting, despite her having sole custody.

I am told that you are not being paid.  It defies logic that you are still so actively and aggressively involved despite this fact.  Please assure me as an officer of the Court that neither (Father) nor anyone else on his behalf is paying you.  Also, assure me that you are not going to use your offices to contact (Minor Child’s) high school and poison them against Ms. Nadig-Mehdipour.  I do not see that you have any reason to contact them.  You are not a parent and have no business asserting your will into this family’s issues.     Sincerely,  Karen Conti

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Former head of secret list of Chicago GAL’s & Child Reps, arrested/stripped of law license.


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24 thoughts on “Child Rep Natalie Koga Confronted W/ Eye-Witness To Her Corruption

  1. Amy Brockwell

    I have watched this mother along with hudreds more suffer the same plight. In loving strongly and wishing to get out of a bad and even sometimes dangetous relationship, they most insanely and unpredictably lose custody. The courts and tbeir cohorts are being called out and the gig will be up soon!
    Mommies love beyond all
    and though society’s lack of empathy and care to protect their children did cause havoc in all areas of their life



    KARMA TIME!!!!


    1. Alissa G.

      She shouldn’t be allowed to just go on like nothing happened, not take responsibility for her crimes and the tremendous damage without making restitution. What’s to stop her from doing this type of thing to other people? People like her don’t want to really have to work for a living – they want easy money from lying and exploiting people.


  2. Jacqueline Martinez

    Great, this is not encouraging News at all! Since my divorce was finalized 3 1/2 years ago. I was pro se (unrepresented) cause I was a stay at home mother for 7 years when I asked for a divorce. He moved out, left me and the kids then 4/5 in a foreclosed house then rented a 3 bedroom penthouse. He was represented by Rinella and Rinella the attorneys who wrote the law books. Two separate attorneys over the course of those 3 1/2 years represented him, one stepped down during the representation, Joshua Singewald — the poor sole must have had a conscious, Joseph Phelps took over he had represented me in a previous divorce my boyfriend then (now husband BK) hired Mr. Phelps to divorce me, so that he (BK) could marry me. I challenged his representation as conflict of interest but Rinella and Rinella won, Mr. Phelps continued to represent my husband. A few weeks before the trail was set the Judge who sat this case for 3 years 4 months suddenly stepped down from duty, we were appointed a New Associate Judge from New York. At trial, I was sitting solo wasn’t allowed to submit any evidence, & I had plenty!!! My X had 2 Attorneys and the judge in a small room in the back., He ruled in favor of my X neither judge awarded me court fees to get a an attorney. We were required to hire a child rep that didn’t show up for the trail. My x was awarded residential custody we have joint decision making on everything else. I was awarded 1 day a week and every other weekend. I was ordered to pay him child support. He continues to schedule my days with activities for the children which alienates me from participation. I don’t agree to extra curricular because it’s travel teams 3 of them and they are expensive to participate in. Not to mention he’s required to get joint permission for these extra curricular activities and he doesn’t. . After jumping through every hoop for the past 4 years it financially broke my small bank and back. I finally had it, moved out of Chicago as it’s quite expensive to be there. In the schools district to comply with zoning requirements for attendance. Which he’s required to do not I, as custodial parent to live in but he doesn’t. Last week he emergency motioned to have me compelled to take them to these activities where he deems necessary when he deems it necessary. If I don’t, I forfeit my time. He gets to keep them over night. Which leaves me zero time with them. Cause they have something every day! We are court ordered to use OurFamilywizard that cost us both money to communicate. We already use talking parents which is free. We are to get a a GAL and if we can’t get one assigned by the courts we have to pay $5000 for a private one. I don’t have money to fight him in court this he depends on! I’m at my wits end! With this narcissist. Even though I’ve had to pick my kids up multiple times with police escort, he refuses to allow them to leave with me because he has scheduled them elsewhere and has my son scared to death NOT to do as he’s told. He was awarded this Emergency Motion. I don’t know how the courts think any of this is in the children’s best interest. Part of the JPA was for the custodial parent to ensure and help foster the relationship of the non custodial parent. My ex’s actions do the exact opposite of that. My son is told I prevent him from living his best life. My daughter is forced to sit the sidelines. For years now. How does any of this help foster my relationship with my kids? They have learned to disrespect me, cause he doesn’t respect me at all. He’s in contempt but I get ruled against? My god how messed up is this court system? Who’s paying who off! His New attorney wrote and emailed clerk Gwendolyn to make sure to get this to Judge Flannigans desk. Excuse me? Now attorneys get to pick the desk motions get assigned to? What a bunch of political crap!! My kids lives they’re playing with! I won’t stand for it!!! Enough is enough. Someone has to hear us mothers cry! For our kids sake! Help! Please! Free legal representation, I will work in exchange for services! I’m licensed Real Estate broker but can’t do my job with this lingering over my head! I’m attorney, travel FB, Baseball MOM, how am I supposed to work and afford this?? It’s a losing battle yet I’m still fighting!
    ****Buy or sell a house with me so I can afford an attorney to save my babies then open up a non profit and help save others like me!! Please!


  3. Dawn

    My divorce and custody began with Judge Levinson who appointed Caryl Jacob Gabes to be my attorney who requested Natalie Koga to be my daughters GAL after picture proof abuse was reported. My ex moved us into his EX step mother’s home then kicked me out, placed an EOP after hiding my daughter from me. We are still dealing with abuse 5 years later and no one with the power to help seems to want to even look at evidence due to lack of funds. I cant AFFORD to protect my child. We need help and I keep fighting and hoping to be heard one day.


  4. Donja Bunnell

    How about financially? She needs the people she’s hurt to go after her. Sometimes, these parasites only pay attention to TWO things. Money and their image being hurt. I would do both. I would sue in court because you can do this. The other thing I would do is go after her in the media. Which is what I am doing to the people who have done this to me. I am going after them financially and in the media as well. I’ve found out how to use the Freedom of Information Act to my advantage. It is amazing the information that you can get your hands on…. Also make sure to get your hands on “Motherless America” by Doreen Ludwig.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. KimKoogle

      Donja Bunnell,
      I have had many instances of requesting open records only to be provided with altered, partial, or zero information.
      Each entity has it’s own “secret” list of vocabulary (or it’s all left to the entity’s discretion) about how they comply with the federal and state open records request law.

      Since you have been successful, would you please provide me with the correct vocabulary to request records from law enforcement agencies?

      I would so appreciate your help.

      Kim Koogle


  5. gayoperadude

    I don’t know if my last comment was posted. Any attorneys or judges accepting bribes to be partial to one or the other parents should be fired, loose their license to practice law anywhere and go to jail. I encourage mom’s to ban together to bring these corrupt attorneys and judges to justice.

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  6. gayoperadude

    The fact that an attorney hired by one parent would accept a bribe from another parent to work against the parent that hired them is the highest form of reprehensible! Attorneys like this should loose their license to practice and should be sent to prison. This isn’t acceptable and I encourage mom’s to ban together and bring corrupt judges and attorneys to justice


  7. Peter

    It is appalling how people like Natalie Koga and others use their appointments as Child Reps and Guardian ad Litems as a license to lie and steal, without impunity, complete disregard for the law governing their professions, and destroy so many innocent children and families. There is a growing movement to implement true accountability and oversight over these lawyers who consistently run amok with the court’s blessing. They must be stopped for the good of all society and the human race.

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    1. AMother'sHeartSongsUnsilenced Post author

      You are so right. The suffering they create ripples out for generations to come, costs billions of dollars to the economy in lost productivity and medical care costs due to these horrific traumas, and it must be exposed. In the words of Luis Brandeis, American lawyer and associate justice on the Supreme Court of the United States from 1916 to 1939, “Publicity is justly commended as a remedy for social and industrial diseases. Sunlight is said to be the best of disinfectants; electric light the most efficient policeman.


      1. Ginny Erickson

        Found this site while looking for a journalist or someone who can shed some light on the GAL system in Cook county and the blatant disregard for truth. Stunning as I sit in court and watch the false accusations that are shouted out by opposing counsel and then to demand a 604 without stating a reason other than the 7 year old is reluctant to have visitation with her father. I have sat in that courtroom and been stunned by the behavior I see and the lack of care about children.


        1. AMother'sHeartSongsUnsilenced Post author

          Ginny, The corruption and abuses in Cook County Family Court are epidemic. I have sat court watch down in the Daley Center, and observed pay-offs to GAL’s right out in open court when the judge was off the bench. If you have a child custody case there, be very diligent, aware, bring witnesses to court, record everything, be very thorough in documenting everything. Also, please visit our Resources pages. You may find information there to protect you from some of the most common tricks and schemes employed by the litigation-therapy racket, particularly as it relates to the common, unethical practice of therapists and other court shrinks engaging in “dual roles”.


  8. Kaylyn

    Unfortunately, countless attorneys with these types of appointments see it as a license to say or do whatever they want because they know there is no oversight or accountability. Mind-bogging that they think nothing of harming children to line their pockets.



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