To the fathers out there depriving your children of their own Mothers – SHAME ON YOU! You have the audacity and hearts black enough to harm your own children – just to hurt their Mothers for daring to say “No” to you. Poor things, she left you. So what. Grow up!
There is nothing unique or original about your tactics and behaviors, as reported to me by countless women, and children, over the course of many years – from Chicago, Michigan, Minnesota, New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Arizona, California, Iowa, Nebraska, Indiana, Wyoming, Texas, Wisconsin, Florida, Georgia, Canada, France, The UK, The Netherlands, Australia, Germany, and the list goes on.
Their reports are substantiated by the mental health research. You are all quite predictable.
You beat your chests while your children cry themselves to sleep at night. You brag about “winning” for all to hear, while your children pretend to like you and what you’ve done – “or else”. Yet you continue deluding yourself that you’re special.
You Gaslight, lie, and slander your child’s mother to anyone who will listen to you. Your favorite – that she’s “crazy” – maybe she was just a little bit, for putting up with you as long as she did.
And every time your kids hear you slander her, they’re forced to back you up, and they die a little bit more inside. You’re not fathers. You’re thugs.
If your own Mothers (and Fathers) knew who and what you really are, underneath your manufactured facade, how ashamed they would be. And heart broken.
Your carefully crafted persona of the charming, kind, polite, generous man is nothing but a hollow sham. In private, your masks slip, revealing your true cruel, sadistic self. The pleasure you take in hurting others weaker than you shows on your face, reflecting the true evil of your hearts. Your charm is a well-rehearsed act to get what you want. You are nothing but frauds.
There is nothing special, or note-worthy about you, other than the fact you were willing to bully someone smaller than you – your own child – to punish someone else. All because you couldn’t bully your child’s mother directly anymore.
You can’t feel like men unless you have someone weaker than you to bully. How pathetic. Any dim-witted dolt can bully women and children.
And you are willing to lie about anything – there is no limit to your depravity.
The set of lies you tell are universally reported, especially that she’s crazy, and cheated on you.
I’ve yet to hear from a single survivor whose abusive ex did NOT say she’s crazy.
You play the heart-broken victim, claiming she cheated on you. But we’ve all noticed that you accuse others of the very things you are guilty of to try to throw them off your scent.
Many of you tell the children she wanted to abort them, didn’t want them. What kind of a person does that to a child?
You all lie about your child’s mother’s parenting. For years, you sat back doing the bare minimum. But suddenly in divorce, you reinvent history.
Your lies fly out of your mouth so effortlessly, clearly you’ve been doing it all your life, and it comes naturally to you. Next to bullying, lying is your greatest skill, and accomplishment in life.
Many of you also encourage your children to abuse their mothers. You take sick pleasure in teaching them to do your dirty work in your place. You think nothing of corrupting your children’s morality, while raising the next generation of abusers. And victims.
And most of you impersonate your children electronically, to psychologically torture their mothers. There must be a play-book somewhere.
You waste your talents. When you could use them for the good of society, you squander them instead, on your plotting, maneuvering, and manipulating. Your favorite people are those with hearts like yours, or simple, naive people you can easily manipulate. And use. Or just pay off. You are drains on society.
And that your insides are so hollow you can’t feel good about yourself without hating anyone who dares contradict you. That your ego is so fragile, your identity so flacid, so soft, that when she said “No”, you threw your child’s Mother under the bus, backing up several times, you know, just to be sure.
And that you aren’t honorable men. You’re posers.
And that your children don’t really love or respect you. They only fear you and pity you.
You couldn’t be bothered with parenting before the divorce. But suddenly you have to have the kids! You can’t even pick on somebody your own size – using a mere child to harm the very woman who gave them life, and birthed them in a bed of pain. The one who ran herself ragged doing all that solo parenting because you were just too important for such drudge work. It is fascinating, the yarns you all spin about your non existent parenting work. You care nothing about the grave harm to your own children.
Real fathers, who truly love their kids, don’t use them as props come divorce time.
It doesn’t take any special talent to charge into a bottom feeder lawyer’s office, plunk down some cash, and rehearse your lies together. You are nothing but cowardly bullies. Child abusers. Frauds. Fakes.
You are failures as men and human beings. You are a level of evil no decent human being could ever understand.
Happy Vengeful Father Syndrome Day! “To all the special childless Mothers out there-you matter!!! Happy Mother’s Day!
Mothers and Children Forever Joined At The Cellular Level vs. Tactics To Defy Nature, by Lisa Nadig “Within weeks of conception, cells from both mother and fetus traffic back and forth across the placenta, resulting in one becoming a part of the other.”
What’s a Mother Worth? by Lisa Nadig “In 1979, a young attorney named Michael H. Minton successfully argued that a housewife was worth more than $40,000 a year. The public snorted and the press made fun, but the ramifications proved enormous. When the dust finally settled, the 33-year-old Chicago lawyer had catapulted matrimonial law into an entirely new arena.” But here we are 40 years later, and how far have we really come?”